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수요일, 8월 10, 2005
was talking to a friend yesterday about the whole relationship thing. he will be embarking on a big journey to the us in a while, and in the same vein, recently broke up with his other for reasons unknown, although last i checked said couple were very much besotted with each other.

this same friend said once before that long distance relationships were difficult anyway *wink wink nudge nudge*. well, fair enough, and i agreed with him in saying that in such cases, the best thing is to find closure. thing is, when two people have literally lived and breathed each other for x number of months, it can be so difficult coming back down to earth again and realising that everything you do has been halved.

i guess that at the end of the day everything happens for a reason, and God above tries to tell us something by putting these people or things in our life. a time of happy coupledom can end for any number of reasons, which just goes to show the depth to which human relationships run. man truly is a complex creature, which brings truth to the opinion that you can never really, truly know someone else inside out.

at the end of the day, if it's meant to be, it will work out. if closure is what's meant for you to find, you will find it, but all in good time. there's times when i think about Boy and get frustrated over certain things as i perceive them, but in the end, it's the memories that count, and the acknowledgement that the cuts slowly heal and the pain will go away.

to friend, i have to say bon voyage and best of luck for your trip, and above all, thank you, because talking to you made me realise how important your friendship over the years has been to me, and for giving me the realisation that sometimes the bravest thing you can do is to love someone else.

on a similarly optimistic note, i am counting down the days till the 5 of september when i will see Boy again. :D


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